klirotis tersumbat

the tajuk above comes from a word which i think cute.. clitoris..

but to make it less catchy, and make it deviant.. malay-terbalik klirotis.. it sounds cute tho.. hahaha...

what the heck?

the klirotis tersumbat syndrome (KT syndrome) happens to women who always flunk in search of love... in a way, the syndrome has a comparable connection with it's twin, the menopause.. kalau menopause tu, women are likely to have a decreased-urge for sexual intercourse, tapi KT syndrome ni,.. women tend to become skeptical, dubious and bla bla bla.. rasa bosan ngan bercinta.. apatah lagi keinginan bersetubuh.. oops.. pardon me for the second notion,..agak kasar jugak bunyi dia.. but what i want to emphasize here, KT syndrome is not a biological response, like the menopause..

"some ideas about menopause for you out there: A natural or physiological menopause is that which occurs as a part of a woman's normal aging process. It is the result of the eventual atresia of almost all oocytes in the ovaries. This causes an increase in circulating follicle stimulating hormone (FSH) and luteinizing hormone (LH) levels as there are a decreased number of oocytes responding to these hormones and producing estrogen..." nak paham lagik.. sendri baca lah.. i read a lot about this thing.. but grasped only a few of it..

who cares...

.. and guess what, i believe most women outside there acknowledge the effect of menopause on sexual behaviour such as decreased libido, pepet kering ataupun vaginal dryness or nak lebih jitu vaginal atrophy, problem reaching orgasm (adakah suami perlu menggunakan baton lumba lari utk memuaskan isteri?... im wondering jugak laaa..ooppppssss), or painful intercourse, according to my previous reading, painful intercourse ni, known as dyspareunia.. which eventually lead to a situation where they think twicefor having sex... aku lebih suka perkataan bersetubuh. lebih seronok..

ahhh.. get back to the main issue. KT syndrome is totally an emotional syndrome.. a sequela syndrome which exists due to experience, and blocked-mental (mental block=an inability to recall some specific thing or perform some mental action. ).

experience:

• dumped by men
• cheated
• forbidden love (bercinta sama abg sendiri or bapak sendiri)
• used to be a player-menizer-gold digger and bla bla bla..

blocked-mental:

• sterotype: lelaki tu binatang! womanizer
• cinta is destructive
• lelaki tu tanggungan
• 'aku punya carrier lebih baik dari kau' idea
• lelaki tu memilih! 'kalau dia tau aku itu ini begitu begini, mesti dia reject aku' idea..

the end result is almost (but not so close) the same with menopause.. the compulsion for love is fading.. (rooted from ideas above..) to make thing worse.. takde nawaitu langsung nak carik pasangan hidup..

wtf?.. how u gonna face the reality.. we ought to get married, have a sanctioned relationship (religiously of course), have kids and bla bla bla.. that is the need of becoming a human.. am i not right?..

but sometimes.. i talk to myself whenever i think about it,

"boleh pulak diorang tahan nafsu diorang... ayo... aku tak bleh la..."

hahahahahhaa.. jahat nye saya.... i dont want to think about you guys.. so.. start talking to yourselves.. perhaps you have your own answer..

boleh tahan ke tak?

im not hoping for solution for this KT syndrome. enough sharing with my friends about it.. let's think about solution next time..

aku lapar.. aku mau makan..

p/s aku mengopi entry lepas